When talking about a man and a woman and how men treat women, it isn't ironic that no matter what the circumstance and the condition there is that causes them to fall apart, every person thinks of it as "MEN WILL BE MEN." All they care about is physical relation, they're pervs' , they go for any girl they'd get. Its been a tradition and a belief to think of it as men have no feelings.
This FUCKED UP notion is a complete unacceptable excuse saying, we men have no control over what we do and what we say. It's outrageous that women generalize us according to our gender. The male race has always been put forward as villains.
And from what I've encountered all through my short seventeen year span of life. Its totally false.
As a male, you have the right to leave any toxic relation just as much as a women without being generalized. You have the right to leave someone that makes you feel guilty and forces you to believe that the problem is with you and not with them, someone who has unrealistic expectation from you and forces you to fulfill them. The women whom I've been with, whom I've heard about, from what I've seen its easy for them. They simply just blame the fall of their relationship on the guy saying "MEN WILL BE MEN." They have no control over their emotions, they think with their dick and blah blah, they're just pervs. And the funny fact is, the whole god damned society accepts that without knowing whats the truth behind the fall. They never think whether if the women is wrong. Whether if shes lying. NO! NO ONE SAYS THAT. ITS BEEN A BELIEF THAT MEN ARE ALWAYS WRONG.
Even when the women is flirting around with all her exes from her college, to someone living outside the country, to her classmates boyfriend, neglecting the fact that she's in a relationship and hiding from everyone that she's in a relationship with someone as she's not proud to be in that realtion. And for what you ask? I ask the same question to myself. For attention? For money? For a short ride from her home to somewhere? For travelling places for her Instagram posts? WHO KNOWS FOR WHAT. And nobody cares either, cause our society says, women , yeah women, they're not like that, they're goddess, FUCK THAT SHIT I SAY. Even when she be pledging for attention all around her dm's and snap chats for more side boys, nobody bats an eye. And when a women gives up her body. A man feels obligated, safe and trusts the women completely as she is giving up something so sacred, a part of her. But she does that when she's not even loyal to that man. She is willing to give her body up to someone she isn't loyal with. THATS NASTY. Both men and women must learn to respect their body and shouldn't misuse such a sacred thing for materialistic pleasure. The reason why men don't respect women these days is because most of the women don"t respect themselves, acting like nasty shanks.
When a relationship ends, be mature enough to respect what happened and learn to live with it. And if you're going to cheat you probably just shouldn't stay in a relationship. Grow up and treat people like peoples instead of tools.
